Shhhhhhh....

the other night i was looking through some quotes that i wrote out.....one of them talked about how silence hurt more than harsh words ("spiteful words hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart")..........why is that true?? is it because words that are spoken can be forgiven and forgot....but if someone never says anything...there is nothing to forgive? or is it because we know that, that person is so hurt/disappointed/frustrated with us that they can't even put it into words themselves? but it doesn't always have to be that....what about when we go to friends for help or comfort.....but all they offer is silence.....yet another quote i have says "we remember not the words of our enemies but the silence of our friends"....... i talked to kk about it and neither of us could put it into words.......silence.....funny....

what is it about silence?